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spiritual counseling is beyond

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traditional therapy it's beyond the mind

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because most people use drugs because

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they want to quiet the mind right mm-hmm

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what does the mind do it goes the past

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and the future it's monkey mind it

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drives people crazy what drugs do it

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stops it so there's another way to do it

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besides drugs it's learning about the

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computer and the body that we have the

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gift that we have we've been tricked no

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one told us about it no one really told

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us what we're made of so walk me through

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how it works at seasons with you are you

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treating everyone at seasons or is it

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only people that are interested in

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everybody we have four houses now right

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we have four houses four different

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programs and I basically get to see

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everyone so that's how it works the four

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houses meaning there no four different

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houses there's a professional program

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there's a mental health program there's

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regular seasons and then there is sort

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of a there's one in Agoura if you want

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less of a program and you you see you

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just want to I wouldn't say it's an

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outpatient but it's less intense okay

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the one that we're all familiar with the

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typical breat what they call rehab is a

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what 30 day 90 days 30 days 90 days is

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the magic number

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you know why you ever ask yourself why

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because the brain gets over a habit in

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90 days it needs 90 days many are going

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just for 30 days exactly and that's a

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problem we will maybe be seeing them

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again so why why is it all based on 30

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days it's a very expensive program and

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how much is it now it could be 70,000

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I'm not really sure about that well you

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get a lot you get a lot you see it's not

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just an AAA program at season's you have

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you

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there's many different modalities

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imagine working with a lot of different

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modalities and practitioners you get the

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best of everything so you know if

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beautiful place I'm gonna guess yes but

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it bothers me when people make fun of

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that like it's some kind of like you

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know social club because there's real

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healing that goes on and I'm really

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proud to work with my team because this

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is no joke if you come in and you meet

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us you're gonna get it man you're gonna

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get it at the deep dive level that you

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guys call deep dive it's a deep dive and

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you better be ready for it now does

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insurance cover some portion of it I

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presume yes but otherwise you got to

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have a bit of money to be able to get

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into your average person yes I've had

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the privilege to meet some really

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amazing people stars celebrities CEOs

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and guess what money doesn't buy

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happiness yeah how do you like that you

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could see that everything everything in

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the world people I was you know would

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look up to I had the privilege to meet

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and we all suffer and we all suffer the

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same and that is the truth why is it do

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you think that celebrities seem to have

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a higher percentage of issues with

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addiction that is the greatest question

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because they get so into the BS they

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need it

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there's the outward praise and

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everything and you get really addicted

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to that and what happens when it ends

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that's why I've also met some really

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amazing sports people you know when

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their careers over they're drinking

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because they need it so there it becomes

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about a spiritual journey because you've

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got to keep it real right so I call it a

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return to the authentic self we all are

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on that journey right the return to the

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truth of who we are and believe it or

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not whatever people think they're doing

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buying houses getting married we're

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healing and we're all the same in that

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do you see a commonality of addicts

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having issues and from

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yes and what is absolutely in trauma

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pain reality can't deal with it that's

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why I cannot stand the shaming around

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drugs and alcohol it's the worst thing

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that could happen because there's a

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reason why are you using no I mean if

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you've been sexually abused if you've

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seen violence maybe the drugs help you

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live maybe you would have killed

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yourself you see so it could be a gift

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it's a great it's a great because yes

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people for some reason what's popping in

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my head is gay in how people talk about

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that oh it's a choice it's not a choice

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and this that and the other and

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everybody now at least has recognized

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that gay is not a choice and I think

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that the same thing is true with

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addiction that addiction is not a choice

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these people aren't choosing to drink

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gallons of alcohol or all these drugs

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they have an addiction problem because

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it's something associated with something

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in their childhood that some traumas

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that they're trying to overcome and they

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don't want to be an addict right they're

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not I don't think they're choosing to be

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an addict am i correct but there are

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also other reasons you know that's one

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is the trauma and the abuse well but let

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me stay on trauma and abuse because you

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agreed wholeheartedly with that do you

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think that's something that you see

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across the spectrum of all addicts is is

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child is some childhood trauma yes okay

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and I call and I it doesn't have to be

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like huge trauma it could also be

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criticism do you know that being

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criticized as a child is the worst thing

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that could happen to someone why I call

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that the soul wound we all have it it

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happens young and you have to track that

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and what happens is here's the thing

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it's not what other people do to us

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that's the problem

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it's what we do to ourselves because of

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it so what happens is when you're

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criticized as a child you left yourself

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you actually split from yourself and you

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criticize yourself and there's a

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separation so the work that I do is a

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soul retrieval bringing back the part of

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yourself that got separated and divided

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because in spirituality you need to be

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aligned with yourself

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you know in power so when you split off

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they do this in politics to split people

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right east west north south good bad and

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divide the people and then you get to

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control them right so think of it it

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inside when we split off from ourselves

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we're gone and until that piece is put

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back we have the same problems over and

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over again do you know that it's really

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one problem that just repeats no I I

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think what I always say with children is

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you could never give them too much love

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or too much discipline and what I mean

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by love obviously is unconditional love

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from the parent so that they know that

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the unconditionally loved you and then

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discipline is just teaching a child that

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you can't always get what you want so

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you're at you're at the toy store and

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they want this toy and they're going

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nuts for this toy and a lot of parents

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will give in because you just want to

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shut the kid up but for the child to

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experience the feelings of not getting

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the toy walking out and then realizing

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that you know what the Sun is still

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shining and you're onto something else

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and you've totally forgotten about that

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toy to deal with your emotions of not

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getting what you want because life is

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about not getting what you exactly and

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would you bring up another reason why

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people come to rehab they are spoiled

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there's too much money and in the Kabala

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they call it the bread of shame it's not

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your money when you take something

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that's not yours you will pay the price

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you understand so that's what that is

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too much money too easily and you become

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really spoiled in the soul but if you

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you know my theory be if you were raised

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with proper discipline and sufficient

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love you can balance those things there

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are celebrities who manage to manage the

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money okay and manage the celebrity okay

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they're probably in a minority but I

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think when you've come from a very

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strong good foundation of an upbringing

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you probably can handle the fame and

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fortune a little bit better than I agree

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with with without that background I

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agree because you're learning spiritual

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principles right gratitude appreciation

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you know working hard knowing where it

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comes from all that that's a character

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stuff that doesn't really have

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to do with money at all that just is

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so-so addicts have some deep-rooted

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issue you would call it a spirituality

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issue isolation soul issue going back to

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childhood but but there's some

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deep-seated thing and that's I just want

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to go back to your point about not

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shaming them again because I do think

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it's so important and you know they

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talked about the tough love and oh my

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gosh he's using again you know we're

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kicking him out of the house because

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he's using again he's hiding it he's

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lying about it he's using again and

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we're gonna kick him out of the house

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leave him on the street I just saw that

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movie beautiful boy solved yeah I really

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related to it it's like a stuff I see

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all the time you know there was no the

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only thing I didn't like about beautiful

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boy is it shows how you know these

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12-step programs can can not work for

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many people they show the father

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struggling with it

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the kid is out on the street begging to

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come home and the father thinks he's

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doing the right thing by not accepting

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his own child who desperately needs over

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Oh many times did he do that how many

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times did you ask you his son many times

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but I would risk I mean let's have a

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conversation about that because I think

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he should continue to rescue the son

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because to our point there's no shame

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this person has a deep problem and in

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the 12-step programs going to AAA and my

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opinion doesn't address those

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deep-seated problems it sounds like what

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you do is trying to address those

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deep-seated problems did that kid in the

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beautiful boy have a psychologist

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psychologist spiritual therapist

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whatever you want to call it who helped

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him work through deep childhood issues

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well not according to the movie that

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never happens right well I'm sorry had